A True Friend...

A True Friend, would never state "I didn't call, because I didn't know what too say...." In a moment of need...Sometimes, all we truly need is Supportive Silence....An Ear, Shoulder, and/or holding of ones hand will suffice...-J. Wms.

Acceptance/Association

Acceptance/Association-You are confusing my having to Accept who you are and What you are, with me being Associated with it. I have a Live and Let Live mentality…and Strongly Feel that everyone has the God Given right to live their lives as they see fit, I do however also believe that it’s also only fair to not confuse that with thinking that others have to Approve and/or Associate with your destructive Opinions, Actions, and Decisions. If you choose to Jump off the Hypothetical Ledge I will not try and stop you all I ask is that you try and not land on anyone else on the way down.-J. Wms.

Direct/Disrespectful

Direct/Disrespectful-I’ve always found that you can be open and honest too others, during a confrontation. The Facts are the Facts, and sometimes they are not easily accepted or presented. However if it’s done in a manner that removes any vulgarity, and unnecessarily detrimental words or tones; you’ll often find that the receiver is defenseless. They say that words have power and also have the ability to strike into the depths of others. Who would you rather Face in a War, the untrained and loud mouth with the Loud and often inaccurate Semi, or the Professional Marksman that is able to hit you before you even know that he was there?-J. Wms.

Patience/Procrastination

Patience/Procrastination-At what point does “I’m Patiently waiting” turn into “WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?!....” Anyone that knows me on a personal level, will probably make fun of my Alice in Wonderland White Rabbit like behavior, in regards to my time….I feel that the only reason that there are 24 hrs. in the day is because someone wasn’t ambitious enough to make it 29….The only thing about our former President that ever really resonated with me, was that unforgettable “Get Er Done” tagline. The Sun is going to Rise and Set regardless of your fears and anxieties about life…..(In my most Vulgar Baltimore Voice Possible…) KEEP IT MOVING!-J. Wms.

Excuse/Explanation

Excuse/Explanation-“I DIDN’T DO IT BECAUSE” can go in either direction…..It’s a Crossroad in a story that describes either Defeat or a continuation to the pursuit of Victory. The Past is the Past, it’s done and it can’t be changed and can only be bridged to the future tense in the way that you act out your Present state. When we reflect on our past failures we have the option to simply describe t...he Failure as simply a dead issue that we will not attempt to change and or correct. Or we can tell the story in a much more beneficial and informational means. I couldn’t help to notice how the word “But” was made to seem so miniscule and taboo in grade school. I never understood this! The word “But” is so transitional! So fluid and so powerful!....It breathes life into the past experiences and turns an excuse into a learning experience…..Tell that B%&@ they call Life she may have gotten me this time, BUT I got my second wind!....Best TWO OUT OF THREE!-J. Wms.