Frenemy

It’s my opinion that the opinion and criticism given by people that we consider to be “Non” Friends, can sometimes be more honest and effective then that of the people that we Love and Trust….This is because they aren’t trying to spare our feelings, or be biased or distribute brownie points based upon the relationship(s) and/or bond(s) between one another….I was told something by a person that I don’t quite consider and Enemy but am forced to deal with on a Daily Basis (hence the word “Frenemy”); that really stuck with me…..OWNERSHIP! No matter what situation that you’re in or have been through, you’re responsible for at least 50% of it….If something has gone wrong at any moment on your life, then you can probably step back from that situation and see things that you could of changed to effect the outcome…Can’t Afford that Car? Why did you buy it?......School is too Hard? Why did you enroll?.....You can’t stand your Job? Why haven’t you found a new one yet?....Trying to lose weight? But you ate that Cheese Burger?!........I have taken this statement to heart and have used it in a way that makes me fully evaluate the decisions that I make…..I MAY NOT BE ABLE TO CHANGE THE PAST, BUT I CAN AVOID REPEATING IT!